
November 19, 2025
Non-contentious dispute resolution (NCDR) refers to resolving family law disputes outside of court through cooperative methods, previously known as Alternate Dispute Resolution (ADR). In England and Wales, NCDR is encouraged to resolve children and financial issues arising from a relationship breakdown within a format that best suits the couple and their family.
NCDR supports the cooperative problem solving and aligns with the family court’s goal of reducing adversarial litigation and making the family court the last resort. NCDR offers separating couples and families a more humane and constructive way to navigate difficult transitions, although there are some circumstances where NCDR might not be appropriate such as:
The types of NCDR that are usually the most effective in dealing with children and financial disputes:
Mediation is the most widely used NCDR method. A neutral, accredited mediator helps parties communicate and reach agreement on issues such as child arrangements or property and financial settlement and is a voluntary and confidential process. While agreements reached in mediation are not legally binding, they can be made binding through a consent order which is then approved by the court. Attendance at a “Mediation Information & Assessment Meeting” (MIAM) is required before issuing most court application, unless an exemption applies such as domestic abuse and violence or urgency.
Family arbitration allows parties to appoint a qualified arbitrator to decide on their dispute. This method of NCDR is governed by Family Law Arbitration scheme covering both financial and some children related issues. Arbitration offers a faster more private and flexible alternative to court. The final decision (the award) is usually accepted by the courts, especially when fair and reasonable.
Otherwise known as private FDR’s (pFDR) is where an experienced barrister acts as a private judge to help couples resolve financial disputes outside of the court process. The pFDR evaluator gives an unbiased indication of their view of the outcome of the court proceedings based on their experience, the facts of the case and law to encourage the parties to reach a mutually agreeable settlement in a less formal, but confidential environment which is not a court building. The key advantages of a pFDR are it is:
Negotiation between solicitors is a common and flexible method, often used alongside other forms of NCDR. Parties exchange proposals and try to reach agreement without formal proceedings. If successful terms can be formalised into a legally binding consent order.
NCDR is generally quicker, cheaper and less stressful than court litigation and therefore supports the premise of a ‘good divorce’.
The family team at Gilson Gray are experienced in all forms of NCDR in resolving matrimonial and children disputes as well as the ‘one couple, one lawyer’ method for divorce and dissolution.
If you need advice on child contact or any other family law matters in England and Wales only, please contact Linda at Gilson Gray for a confidential discussion.
| Linda Pope Partner, Family Law – England | ||||
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The information and opinions contained in this blog are for information only. They are not intended to constitute advice and should not be relied upon or considered as a replacement for advice. Before acting on any information contained in this blog, please seek solicitor’s advice from Gilson Gray.

Linda is a Partner in our Family Law Team and is a specialist advising clients in divorce, separation and private law children and is recommended in the Legal 500. Based in our London office, she has extensive experience of handling high value financial claims with international multi-jurisdictional issues, family businesses and trusts as well as representing clients with limited assets where a novel solution is required. Linda regularly handles difficult and complicated cases where domestic abuse is involved successfully representing both husbands and wives from diverse backgrounds.