The Importance of Putting Your Child First – Child Contact

The Importance of Putting Your Child First*

When relationships break down, one of the most challenging aspects for parents is navigating child contact arrangements. At Gilson Gray, we understand that emotions run high, but it is essential to focus on what truly matters—your child’s well-being.

*The information in this blog relates to England and Wales only

Prioritising Your Child’s Best Interests

The key principle in any child contact dispute is that decisions should be made in the child’s best interests. Courts and legal professionals encourage parents to prioritise stability, emotional security, and a nurturing environment. This means setting aside personal grievances and working towards an arrangement that allows the child to maintain strong relationships with both parents, where it is safe to do so.

Effective Co-Parenting and Communication

Successful co-parenting requires open and respectful communication. This includes:

• Keeping discussions child-focused rather than personal.
• Being flexible and willing to compromise when necessary.
• Using written agreements or parenting plans to ensure clarity.

If direct communication is difficult, mediation services can provide a structured way to reach a fair arrangement.

Legal Framework for Child Contact

If parents cannot agree on arrangements, legal intervention may be necessary. Courts will consider factors such as:

• The child’s emotional, educational, and physical needs.
• The ability of each parent to meet these needs.
• The child’s own views (depending on their age and maturity).

In some cases, a Child Arrangement Order may be required to formalise contact arrangements.

Handling Conflict and Disputes

Disagreements are common, but they should never escalate to the detriment of the child. Options such as mediation, negotiation, and legal advice can help parents find a resolution without unnecessary stress. At Gilson Gray, we support families in finding the best path forward with as little disruption as possible.

How Gilson Gray Can Help

Our family law team provides clear, practical advice tailored to your circumstances. Whether you need assistance with mediation, negotiation, or court representation, we are here to guide you through the process.

If you need advice on child contact or any other family law matters in England and Wales only, please contact Sharan at Gilson Gray for a confidential discussion.

The information and opinions contained in this blog are for information only.  They are not intended to constitute advice and should not be relied upon or considered as a replacement for advice.  Before acting on any information contained in this blog, please seek solicitor’s advice from Gilson Gray.